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Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

What makes a girl wifey material? What makes a boy husband material?

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AI3girl · All-Star Joined: Apr 3, 2002 Posts: 898 Location: Chicago

A man is husband material if he look like AI or resemble AI in anyway if he got a job if he aint cheap if he is sweat to his girl and if he can be trusted I know its some more qualities a husband should have but I cant think of anymore all yeah got to have a good personality

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

yeah, I agree. I'd like my mate to be cute, smart, good personality. And if he ugly, but I like who he is, I'd date him anyway. He gotta understand me and can't be a punk. I wanna trust him too. Gotta be able to chill with him and laugh like he was my friend.

I don't wanna be like, damn I wish he would just leave. He's Good company.

[ July 28, 2002: Message edited by: Lil Lady Iverson ]

AllensBabyGirl3 · Posted: Mon Aug 05, 2002 9:27 am Post subject: What makes a girl wifey material?

My boyfriend told me a wifey is someone who is down for there man for whatever ( not meaning anything sexual just being there for them when they need you ) someone who loves them no matta what the situation. Personally I think hubby material is someone who respects and loves me for me and would never do anything to hurt or disrespect me in anyway. Someone who is there when your up or down. My baby is just that thats why we been together 4 years, holla!

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

DAMN, GONE HEAD. MY LONGEST RELATIONSHIP WAS 3 MONTHS. AND THE REST OF THESE NIGGAS I JUST DON'T CALL THEM. I PLAY WITH THEM CUZ I KNOW THEY AIN'T BOUT SHYT. I AIN'T GAVE THEM NUTHIN EITHER, I PLAY WITH THEM IN WAYS LIKE LAUGHING SAYING "I AIN'T CALLING YOU" THEY THINK I BE PLAYING! BUT WHEN I DON'T CALL THEY KNOW. WHEN I GET A NIGGA THATS BOUT SOMETHING SOME REAL SHYT WILL START. THEY AIN'T GOTTA BE RICH, BUT DAMN HAVE A PLAN!!

AllensBabyGirl3

Girl me and him been through it all but I love him. Now and days all niggas tryin to do is f*** and roll out thats why I told my boyfriend when we first met that if he was only tryin to smash somethin then he mis well keep steppin cause im not no cheap trick ya know. These young girls out here is makin it bad for all of us fuckin any ole body then they wonder why niggas dont respect girls. Majority of the people I hang around is niggas and I hear and see how they be usin these young girls and goin home to there so called wifey. I told my boyfriend if I ever found out he was fuckin wt someone else I was gonna kick his ass.

FrizzyAI#3lova · Posted: Tue Aug 06, 2002 3:41 pm Post subject: What makes a girl wifey material?

That's tru though I know I got alot to learn because I'm bout to turn 14 in Sep. and in the 9th gr. this August but I'm very mature for my age but I got a long ways to go. But girls my age are some freaks I mean ho's........look I don't know what to call em. My ma taught me betta she told me when it comes down to it a nigga might f*** a ho but he aint gon marry her he'll marry a girl he know he can trust.

And for some reason boys like virgins I don't know why some nigga said because they pure and fresh some crazy s*** like that but they aint takin mine that's fa sho.I'm tryin to stay a virgin as long as I can handle...And I can handle alot. Girls my age let niggas touch them on they ass and they dumb because they believe every thing a nigga say and be lettin em hit.I aint fa that.

They be playin that let me feel on ya booty crap. I be like "Nigga you aint no damn R. Kelly so don't even go there if ya try I'm throwing some serious bows" but they be leaving me alone. They respect me like when we be playin basketball they be treatin me like a girl that can play ball and not like no ho getting around.

AND THAT'S HOW IT IS

[ August 06, 2002: Message edited by: FrizzyAI#3lova ]

I3Balla4Life · Sixth Man Joined: Jul 28, 2002 Posts: 98 Location: TN

Aiight this is what makes good husband material for me:

ge gotta have my same religious beliefs (a Christian), he gotta have an education (a good one, and I'm not talking about easy classes either), he gotta have a good sense of humor, he gotta respect my parents and family, he gotta be athletic (b-ball or football or track is good), he gotta respect me for who I am as a person on the inside and not my outward appearance alone, he gotta respect my goals and dreams in life, and let me pursue them. This honey right here ain't gonna be controlled by no man. I'm going to either the Olympics (track) or the WNBA, and I'm going to do what it takes to get there, and if he don't repsect that, then he can hit that door.

And of course he gotta look good (preferevbly light caramel color with green eyes and dimples), but if he got all the other good qualities and is just you average looking brotha, I could accept that too.

I3Balla4Life · Sixth Man Joined: Jul 28, 2002 Posts: 98 Location: TN

my bad, I made a few typos:

*he (not ge)
and *preferebly (not preferevbly)

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

Thats what I mean. All some of em try to do is f*** you. I'm looking to get to know somebody. Even though all of them not like that. Nobody can't say that I want a nigga for they looks and I don't want to know them becuz I have dated some ugly ass niggas only becuz they had a good personality. I honestly see past wallets and further than skin deep.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

Oh yeah I'm tryna stay a virgin as long as I can too Frizzy. I know my worth. f*** what ya heard!

I3Balla4Life · Sixth Man Joined: Jul 28, 2002 Posts: 98 Location: TN

Fa sho gurl! I'm a virgin and I'ma be one till I'm married. Screw them bitch ass niggaz who just want some head, they ain't worth it.

FrizzyAI#3lova · Posted: Tue Aug 06, 2002 4:46 pm Post subject: What makes a girl wifey material?

Oh yeah and:

Husband Matieral is: he has ta be educated,smart,he got ta be down for me as well,good personality,respects me,loves basketball(because I love it and someone to practice wit),loves his family,respect his ma,believe in God,encourages me, never let me give up,cute,fine,handsome and all that good stuff. And if he looks like AI it want hurt at all.
And he can't be soft he got ta be strong and ruff and a lil thuggish not in a bad way though.And understands me and where I come from.Because I don't want no scary punk(you got to fight his and your battles)ya know what I'm sayin.

And I agree wit ya girl he got to support me because I plan to be in the WNBA too or the first girl in the NBA(it could happen) one of those. If he doesn't he can ROLL OUT!!!!

Wifey Matieral is: a girl that's down for ya,someone you can trust(she aint out there hoing),good personality,educated,believes in God,works, and supportive.

FrizzyAI#3lova · Posted: Tue Aug 06, 2002 4:55 pm Post subject: What makes a girl wifey material?

I know huh niggas always doin s***. They got some ho niggas out there they just as bad as the sum girls.

And that's righ we gon stay virgins as long as we can because you don't want no nigga leavin afta he got sum and gon tell the whole damn city.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

YEAH IT AIN'T WORTH IT TO LIVE IN THE MOMENT AND SOME GIRLS FEEL ASHAMED AND EXPLOITED AFTER HAVING SEX. I DON'T KNOW WHY THEY THINK THEY STAND OUT FROM THE OTHER GIRLS. I WAS WATCHING THIS GOOD AS MOVIE CALLED "BELLYFRUIT" ITS REALITY LIKE A MUHFUCKA! YALL NEED TO GO RENT THAT SHYT IF YALL THINKING BOUT LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY.
AND I AGREE A MAN HAS TO RESPECT ME AND MY BELIEFS, AND THINKS WITH HIS HEART AND MIND!
EDUCATED AND ALL LIKE YALL SAID......ETC.

[ August 06, 2002: Message edited by: Lil Lady Iverson ]

FrizzyAI#3lova · Posted: Tue Aug 06, 2002 5:33 pm Post subject: What makes a girl wifey material?

I aint neva seen that but ya'll eva saw "The Inkwell" wit Larenz Tate and um Jada Pinkett Smith girl it shows a boy comin of age and how all he thinkin bout is hittin and at the end of the movie he hit a women way older than him.
Man boys my age that's all they thank about man I got betta things to think about this time and day. Now I still be lookin at fine boys but that's as for as it goes I don't act on it.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

I HOPE NOT. AND I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO HEAR FROM SOMEBODY WHO HAS HAD SEX BEFORE. I WON'T PUT YOU ON THE SPOT AND TRY TO GET IN THEIR BUSINESS EITHER. I'M NOT LIKE THAT.

AllensBabyGirl3

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Originally posted by FrizzyAI#3lova:
That's tru though I know I got alot to learn because I'm bout to turn 14 in Sep. and in the 9th gr. this August but I'm very mature for my age but I got a long ways to go. But girls my age are some freaks I mean ho's........look I don't know what to call em. My ma taught me betta she told me when it comes down to it a nigga might f*** a ho but he aint gon marry her he'll marry a girl he know he can trust.

And for some reason boys like virgins I don't know why some nigga said because they pure and fresh some crazy s*** like that but they aint takin mine that's fa sho.I'm tryin to stay a virgin as long as I can handle...And I can handle alot. Girls my age let niggas touch them on they ass and they dumb because they believe every thing a nigga say and be lettin em hit.I aint fa that.

They be playin that let me feel on ya booty crap. I be like "Nigga you aint no damn R. Kelly so don't even go there if ya try I'm throwing some serious bows" but they be leaving me alone. They respect me like when we be playin basketball they be treatin me like a girl that can play ball and not like no ho getting around.

AND THAT'S HOW IT IS

[ August 06, 2002: Message edited by: FrizzyAI#3lova ]

Yoy go head girl, its good to see girls who respect themselves and that is so true guys will f*** a ho but wont turn a ho into a housewife. My mom always told me that and I never forgot it, and its also true alot of guys do like virgins so stick to what you wana do girl, holla!

AllensBabyGirl3

All the guys I hang around, I tell them its ashame how they treat these lil girls but if they dont have respect for themselves then these niggas not gonna respect them and they gonna use them. And these young girls think they doin somethin cause they gettin like 20 here 50 there, dat aint s*** when niggas got hundreds in there pockets ya know. They just like the fact that a older nigga is fuckin wit them but they dont realize they gettin played big time. I never understood that but I tell you, you will learn alot about niggas from just bein around them because I seen the games they play, how they lie everything and these dumb ass girls be fallin for it im like dats crazy, holla back!

[ August 06, 2002: Message edited by: AllensBabyGirl3 ]

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

I REALLY WISH SEX WASN'T A BIG DEAL. BUT IT IS BECAUSE IT CAN TAKE YOUR LIFE IF ITS UNPROTECTED SEX. AND ANYTHING THAT CAN TAKE YOUR LIFE IS A BIG DEAL.

AllensBabyGirl3

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Originally posted by Lil Lady Iverson:
I REALLY WISH SEX WASN'T A BIG DEAL. BUT IT IS BECAUSE IT CAN TAKE YOUR LIFE IF ITS UNPROTECTED SEX. AND ANYTHING THAT CAN TAKE YOUR LIFE IS A BIG DEAL.

Thats so true, niggas make sex a big deal always tryin to pressure girls into it and sometimes it aint even worth it.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

I KNOW ITS FOR PLEASURE, BUT IF YOU BASE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON THAT IT WON'T WORK. ITS LIKE IF YOU DON'T HAVE SEX YOU'RE NOTHING. THEN WHAT DO YOU HAVE? AND A LOT OF NIGGAS GO RIGHT BACK AND TELL THEY "LOUD MOUTH" FRIENDS HOW YOU GOT DOWN. AND THEY TELL THE CONTINENT.

[ August 06, 2002: Message edited by: Lil Lady Iverson ]

AllensBabyGirl3

I know dats right, a relationship will not work if its just based on sex thats why I held out on my boyfriend for almost 2 years and his boys was like yo man why you still wit her she, aint no way I would have stayed wit a girl a year if she didnt give me none let alone two and he told them that bein wit me he realized it wasnt even about dat and he loved me dat much dat he was willin to wait til I was ready and I thought that was so sweet. I dont care wit nobody say boys like the thrill, the chase, the challenge if you give it up dat first night let alone dat first month then they gonna wanna move on to the next cause they already got what they wanted basically. Niggas like what they cant get, they may deny it but its true.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

THAT IS SO TRUE! I DON'T PLAN TO BE A VIRGIN TILL I DIE OR NOTHING LIKE THAT, BUT I KNOW ITS GOING TO TAKE A WHILE FOR ME TO LOOSE IT.
I'M GOING TO HAVE MANY OPPORTUNITIES AND MOST WILL BE WRONG, SO I SHOULD GET USED TO IT, CUZ I'M SO FINE.......LOL...
I DON'T THINK GIRLS (NOT THE HO'S) WOULD TREAT IT LIKE A BIG DEAL IF THESE NIGGAS DIDN'T. THEY ACT LIKE THEY CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT IT.

AllensBabyGirl3

I have a 14 year old sister and I tell her all the time to watch these guys out here cause now and days niggas dont care how old girls are as long as they get there nut off which is so nasty, but I tell her they will tell you everything you wanna hear, they wanna be wit you, they love you, they will get you anything you want but you cant feed into it cause its all game. Im 18 years old and I have seen and heard the games they play and I try to tell her dat all the time cause she has real sensitive feelins and I could see some stupid ass boy fuckin her head up and hurtin her then my ass will be goin to Jail for killin his ass.

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

YOU SOUND LIKE MY SISTER, SHE 17. I'M 14 TOO. THEM BOYS THINK BY TELLING YOU WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR AND ALL THAT, THEY GETTING CLOSER. NOPE! THEY DON'T DESERVE ANYTHING BUT THE LIES THEY TELL YOU.

AllensBabyGirl3

Im wit you they think dat makes a girl want them more because they kick there lil bullshit ass game im like please take dat weak game to the court cause you aint bouncin nothin here ya heard!

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

OHHHHHHHHHH NAW. I LIKE THAT PHRASE. OH I'M JEALOUS.

AllensBabyGirl3

Lol thank you

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

NAW THANK YOU. I'MA PIMP THAT PHRASE!! LOL

AllensBabyGirl3

You do dat girl make it a worldwide pimp phrase, holla.!

Lil Lady Iverson · All-Star Joined: Apr 21, 2002 Posts: 903

YOU KNOW!