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mrs.iverson3 · Visitor Joined: Dec 30, 2001 Posts: 8 Location: georgia

please reply, i really wanna know how the fans feel.

MizDiamonds

I don't know what happened between Allen and Tawanna that sparked the "ALLEDGED" argument that they had.All I heard were like four stories and everytime I heard them they sounded different and other statements were added. So I cant really say that they should split.It was probobaly something stupid that the media was just blowing out of proportion.
And anyway thats not my place to say if they should split or not.I mean,yeah,I could talk s*** but that really wouldn't make a difference because Allen obviously isn't sweating it.
Oh yeah and they have been together for about ten/eleven years now...huh,thats love ma.A lot of female out there (are gold diggers,platinum diggers-whatever you wanna call it,their still after money and are only after him for his money-I know a few)and Tawanna's the only one that he's sure about.He knows in the back of his mind that she loves him and he loves her.So like I said before,I know that he was in previous trouble but I don't care about that because everyone fucks up in life and all we can do is try not to make the same mistake twice.you know,I admire and respect him because of the image that he portrays when ever I see him(on television,etc)he seems like a sincere person and if thats just a front...then... I still don't care.I also like him because I can see that he has heart and plays through games even when he's in pain and I admire him for that.
He's keepin GANSTA!!!

Yeah and I also like him because he stepped up to the plate and took responsibility for his children and a lot of guys would have folded up and walked away from it all just to escape the pressure.

*~MizD~*

[ September 13, 2002: Message edited by: MizDiamonds ]

MizDiamonds

Sorry about writing about writing a whole damn novel I couldn't help it.I just had a lot on my mind.

*~MizD~*

mrs.iverson3 · Visitor Joined: Dec 30, 2001 Posts: 8 Location: georgia

hey its cool ma, i aint sweatin it, thats why o i posted this topic cause i wanted to know what everyone heard and how they feel.

AIGirl3 · Starter Joined: Aug 12, 2002 Posts: 300 Location: Michigan

I don't really have alot to say but I don't think that he should leave her but as MizD said it's not my place to say whether they should or not but I think that it would still be messed up. It doesn't seem like they're doing that bad but the media does get up into stuff and make it seem worse than it really is. Obviously whether he is an NBA star or not the court system would have had no sympathy for him if what he did was as serious as the news reporters said that it was. I just think that those people get paid to be in other people's business. Ludacris should talk to them about stayin out of Allen's bizness, his biznazz.

Tricina

to be honest il really dont care if they split or not, because i know if they do break up he will never be the same allen, and too i know that i would never get him so i hope they stay together because im no a hater.

iverson423 · Starter Joined: Jun 1, 2002 Posts: 206

i agree wit everythang mizdiamonds said. it's like she took the damn words out my mouth. it's cool .

AI_LL

If he left her it would make a lot of people look at him differently espcially over something that was blown out of porportion. It would be stupid to throw away 11 years of being together 2 kids and bacially all of your life. He loves her and she loves him and they've proven this to the world to still be together after so long and they're yet so young. But if it came down to it hey it's his life.

Black Honey · Starter Joined: Aug 9, 2002 Posts: 182

Honestly, I don't believe they had a small agrument but I must say the media went to far with story without knowing all the facts. As for whether or not Allen should leave Tawanna, it all depends on their situation. Yes they have been together for 10 years( not 11) but who is to say that during that ten year period everything was reasonably ok. We all don't know the dynamics of their relationship to say whether he should leave or not. All I can say time heals old wounds. If Allen is able to forgive for whatever misdeed she did, then maybe they will be able to work past it.However something of that magnitude where you find out that your hubby/wife is sleeping with your cousin will not be easy to forgive or forget.Ask you guys this if you found out your man was creeping with your cousin would you forgive?? I'm sure half of you would say no.I think they are getting counseling to salvage their marriage but it will be a long tedious process. It's apparent they have major problems in their relationships or none of this would have came to light. I always believe things happen for a reason and if he happens to leave her, then it was meant to happen that way and I myself wouldn't look at him differently because if he is unhappy in the situation no matter how long he has been with her why stay it it.I say Life is too short to be miserable.

AI_LL

Black Honey, I agree and disagree with a lot of what you say it had to be a small argument for her to come back. The media may make things look bigger than they are. But everyone else that's around Allen and Tawanna say it was a domestic dispute and every marriage is going to go through the bumps and brusies it comes with the rock. Yes the media went to far with the story but you are also saying that she slept with his cousin it seems like everyone is pointing the blame at Tawanna because she's just a celebrites wife. Just as much as she could've done something wrong he also could've. Why would they need counseling, if they needed someone else to help with their relationship then they don't need to be together. Just because they had a fight doesn't mean they are having major problems a major problem would be him beating on her and bragging about it. Yes things happen for a reason and who knows what the reason of the dispute was or anything. Something in the relationship must be going right if he got into all this trouble looking for his wife. As far as I've seen they have a beautiful relationship and it's once that you fall in love and your lucky if you can keep that love. So they just need to keep doing they thang cause some people would die for a love like that.

Ta'Shanda · Starter Joined: Jun 18, 2002 Posts: 445 Location: Chicago

Somebody please tell me what Tawanna did and please make it short for me cause I dont want to read no essays.

greenapples

I don't think he should. leave her. When you marry someone it's for better or worse. A marriage is hard work and just because you have a bad day or two you don't just pick up and leave, unless there is physical abuse. Everything is not going to be rosey all the time, and I don't think he would have married her if he didn't love her and vice versa I don't think she would have married him if she did not love him. They were togther for a long time before they got married so I think both of them knew what the were getting it's not like they were together for a short period of time, if she was so bad or he was so bad they would not have lasted this long.

greenapples

When was it said anywhere in any articles or news specials that Tawanna slept with Allen's cousin or any one else. I don't even think she would be that stupid to sleep with Allen's Cousin.

Black Honey · Starter Joined: Aug 9, 2002 Posts: 182

Personally, I don't believe it was a small agrument. If it was she wouldn't have been in hiding for two days in a hotel.Also when he went to look for her at the hotel, the security guard there knocked on door and she didn't answer. It seems to me she was scared of something but of what.If the argument between them was that petty , why didn't she go back home the next day and resolve the issue with Allen. We all don't know her reasons for going back to him and I'm sure there are many. I'm saying is what you see on the surface is not always want is really the deal. The reason why I said they need counseling because if it was just merely a small fight then it shouldn't have escalated to the level that it did. Plus, I have heard that in the past, they have some pretty nasty fights.All I'm saying is things happen for a reason and hopefully this incident would shed some light on what they need to improve on their relationship. JMO.

Black Honey · Starter Joined: Aug 9, 2002 Posts: 182

AI_LL, do you really think the family was going to admit to the media that it was really a big argument. Of course not because that would be stupid on their parts. Right?? If they made it seem that whatever transpired between Allen and Tawanna was nothing more than lover's spat, then the media would for one not dwell too much on their relationship and would have doubts that Allen actually made threats to the two men in the apartment.Why do you think Tawanna for instance jumped on Allen's back that day in the yard?? To make it appear that everything was alright for the media and the public.Plus, if they admited that it was a pretty big incident then the media would want to investigate why and other pertinent details would come out regarding their relationship and others involved.Also if you want to make comparisons,how many times we think that some of these celebrity couples are so happy because they smile in the camera but a couple of months later we hear about divorce and all the sordid detailsof their relationships.JMO

AI_LL

Yea right the media would do anything for a story on a star athlete especially Allen Iverson as many people that love him and hate him. I mean seriously what else could this have been besides a domestic dispute. Actually if it was something more then the family wouldn't have said anything at all to the press. Tawanna jumping on Allen's back how do you know if they don't kick like that on a regular basis I mean there's not a camera in front of their house watching their every move every day. And the celebrites that I do hear about getting the divorces are usually celebrity dating celebrity. And most celebrites don't get married for love that get married for publicity cause that's what gets them these lead roles in these movies and gets them these 3 million dollar endorsements. Why is that the media was so caught up in Allen Iverson's story that another woman in Phildelphia called (not a man that can defend himself against another man but a woman) and she said she was not only verbally threatened but also beaten up this happened the same night Allen did his dirt except she called first. And she never heard back from police even after a second time. She told the police where he stayed and yet the man still didn't go to jail and to this day he is still walking the streets. Come on now the media could've stacked out in front of his house and watched his every move but they didn't and why is that. Now let that had been another pimp that went by the name of Micheal Jordan they would've been on that man ass like white on rice. So don't try to tell me s*** about the media cause I see more cameras, helicopters and news anchors on the daily than some people see live in their life. What you saying about the media and family is nothing but a joke to me.

MsThang_1 · Rookie Joined: Sep 16, 2002 Posts: 26 Location: Texas

I personally don't feel that he should leave her. I think that it was a small argument where both of them wanted their ways and they couldn't have it. You know what I'm saying. I do think that the media did make this look bigger than it was. The reason why she left and didn't speak to him for a couple of days, we don't know. All we can do is speculate. I don't ever think that we will ever find out what happened that night. I think he/they should do what's right for them as a couple. I mean, their relationship has been through it, and to leave him now, she would be stupid. Marriage is supposed to be for better or for worse, and whatever happened that night, he really loved her or something cause she back at home and they doing their thing. You know. We don't live with them, so basically we on the outside looking in. I also personally feel that he ain't gon leave her and she ain't gon leave him. That's ludacris. They both, I'm sure, have put each other through hell and hot water. So, no, I don't think that he should leave her or vice versa.

rayna · Rookie Joined: Sep 12, 2002 Posts: 49

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Originally posted by Asshana_MsThang:
I personally don't feel that he should leave her. I think that it was a small argument where both of them wanted their ways and they couldn't have it. You know what I'm saying. I do think that the media did make this look bigger than it was. The reason why she left and didn't speak to him for a couple of days, we don't know. All we can do is speculate. I don't ever think that we will ever find out what happened that night. I think he/they should do what's right for them as a couple. I mean, their relationship has been through it, and to leave him now, she would be stupid. Marriage is supposed to be for better or for worse, and whatever happened that night, he really loved her or something cause she back at home and they doing their thing. You know. We don't live with them, so basically we on the outside looking in. I also personally feel that he ain't gon leave her and she ain't gon leave him. That's ludacris. They both, I'm sure, have put each other through hell and hot water. So, no, I don't think that he should leave her or vice versa.

i agree with you i don't think either of them are gonna leave each other either.they both have too much to lose,and too much time put in their relationship so it would be crazy for them to split.

MizDiamonds

I'm sorry for jumping off of the topic for a minute but why did Allen and Tawana split the first time?And was this when he was "alledgely"dating DaBrat?

*~MizD~*

The1andonly_Mrs.Iverson · Starter Joined: Sep 21, 2002 Posts: 162 Location: PhiLLy

TO SUM IT ALL UP ALL RELATIONSHIPS HAVE UPS AND DOWNS AND THATS ALL THIS WAS. IT JUST SEEMS LIKE SUMFIN MOE BIGGAH CUZ IVY IS FAMOUS. THEY BELONG TOGETHER........ ~1~

iverson'sbabigyrl · Rookie Joined: Jun 19, 2002 Posts: 31 Location: memphis

I BELIVE THAT EVERYONE SHUD JUSLEAVE THEM ALONE DONT WORRY BOUT WUT THEY NEED TO DO !!!!!

j.iverson · Sixth Man Joined: Sep 13, 2002 Posts: 74

i don't think he should leave her because i think it was a small arugment and i don't think she cheated on him u seen the way ann was acting so if she had cheated on him i think ann would have done something about it.

MizDiamonds

I'm not trying to be rude or diss allens mother or anything but I have to speak out about this...

From what people have been saying,I heard that just about everytime Allen and Tawana got into an argument,Ann jumped in.
I see it like this I could understand if Tawanna said something about Ann during the argument but I doubt she would have because in an article Ann said that she has been raising Tawanna ever since she was 16 and I think Tawanna would have a lot more respect for her than that.
Ann is older than both of them and I understand that she is a down ass chick and that is cute and all but only to a certain extent.If Ann is there she should act like an adult and try to part the argument instead of jumping in and making it bigger.Thats just childish.I totally understand that she's jumping in...in the defense of her son and thats cool but how would ya'll feel if ya'll got into an argument with your husband and ya'll probobaly didn't say anything about your husbands mother and she knows good and damn well that her son is wrong and she just jumps on you.Thats shitty.I mean a lot of times Allen's going to be wrong and a lot of times Tawanna is going to be wrong but the people that are around should just part it.My motto is that it takes two to tango and two to f***.A relationship is mainly two people,not three,not four and the list gore on.
People have to understand that fair is fair,right is right and wrong is mothafuckin wrong.
I'm not trying to start a fight with anyone reading this but ya'll have to understand where I'm coming from.

*~MizD~*

j.iverson · Sixth Man Joined: Sep 13, 2002 Posts: 74

Miz Diamonds i agree wut u 100%
where do u read article bout ann saying she raise tawanna i would like to read it

MizDiamonds

Thankyou for agreeing and understanding my point of view.It was actually the article where Ann was barkin at the reporters when Allen had gotten in trouble so in July so if you want to read it I think its still posted on the philly.com sight.

*~MizD~*

Black Honey · Starter Joined: Aug 9, 2002 Posts: 182

Ok, I think I read that article somewhere and it never mentioned that Ann had raised Tawanna when Tawanna was 16. How could she when she could barley raise Allen and Brandy. Plus, Tawanna came from a middle class family. Anyways, as for Ann jumping into their agruments that is wrong but it is also spiteful on Tawanna 's part to be talking about his mother to Allen's face.Also if you think about did Tawanna really think things were going to change, once her and Allen tied the knot. If she did she was obviously fooling herself. I get the impression that this has beeen going on ever since Allen made it into the Nba. Tawanna should have put a stop to Ann butting into their business then. Hmmm, I wonder why.Holla

hotgurl76

MizDiamonds I agree wit u 110% she str8 up mothafuckin wrong for that. Allen could be wrong a lot and she all up in the kool-aid and don't even know tha flava like it's hur business. ~Holla~

MizDiamonds

THANKYOU Hotgurl76.
I'm not sure if that was the article that it was stated in and what your saying is very logical and I second that too.But like I said before..anyone who does not agree with what I said should atleast try to understand where I'm coming from with my statement.
I could try to find the article and post it on here if if ya'll want me to!!

*~MizD~*

Black Honey · Starter Joined: Aug 9, 2002 Posts: 182

MizDiamonds, I'm not saying I don't believe you about Ann butting into their arguments because I do but let's not forget there are always two sides to every story. We really don't know what goes on in that household. However, I will reiterate that Ann did not raise Tawanna.Holla

Rena Iverson

I dont really know the situation but if she did cheat i think he should leave her cause she shattered all trust and the cousin thats nasty. But if she did not cheat people need to stop startin rumors

hotgurl76

Rena Iverson I disagree if she did cheat then he should stay wit her becuz even though two wrongs don't make a right it got his attention. And if she cheated wit his cousin then yeah he need to leave her quick cuz that's nasty. ~Holla~

The1andonly_Mrs.Iverson · Starter Joined: Sep 21, 2002 Posts: 162 Location: PhiLLy

i hope ann aint really like that cuz thats just how my boyfriend's mama is. wheneva i cuss him out and hang up or whateva here she come callin me askin me why i direspected her son and s*** when she dont kno what he did like his ass is innocent and then i be tryna have respect for my man and not cuss her ass out but she be gettin to me and then i get madder at him. so if ann do be doin all that she need to mind her business cuz her buttin in is makin it 10 times worse. i hate nosey mamaz.

j.iverson · Sixth Man Joined: Sep 13, 2002 Posts: 74

MizDiamonds since i can't find the article go ahead and post it please

MizDiamonds

okay I'm going to search for it and post it right now.

*~MizD~*

Ivy'sSk8terChik · Starter Joined: Sep 28, 2002 Posts: 159 Location: My Crib

No disrespect to Mama Ivy, but she gotta let Allen be a man, he's 28 and he can take care of himself. Let him handle his bizness on his own, thats him. I understand thats her son and all, but the things between him and his wife stay between him and his wife. Thats they bizness.

hotgurl76

I agree wit chu on evrythin u said except the part about him being 28 he 27. ~Holla~

The1andonly_Mrs.Iverson · Starter Joined: Sep 21, 2002 Posts: 162 Location: PhiLLy

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